Seems like everyone has an opinion on blogs and bloggers these days. By all means they have the right to speak their minds just like we as bloggers have the right to speak ours. I’ve sat back and watched K. Michelle, Yandy Smith, Daisy (from the new reality show Blood, Sweat and Heels) and now Ciara as well as Rico Love talk about how bad some of these bloggers and blog sites are as well as how bad blogging can be. As previously stated, they have that right, but what about the blogs and bloggers that aren’t negative such as the ones on Ihatemypublicist.com.
As a blogger, I don’t see the fun in talking down on anyone or trying to defame one’s character. I realize that these celebrities are human just like we are and I don’t want anyone saying mean things about me so I don’t do it to others. Sure I could post rumors and lies on the site to get my traffic booming but that wouldn’t reflect my personality. Social media has given us first dibs into the lives of celebrities, so shouldn’t it be okay for us to take what some of you have already put on the internet and give it a little more detail, opinion and creativity? Because we are still an upcoming celebrity entertainment site my goal is to show other bloggers that you don’t have to be negative to become a successful blogger. The site has been growing without all of the he say, she say gossip that’s floating around on the web. There are other ways to give your readers a great story without being negative you just have to find out what works best for you.
Every story that’s posted on the site isn’t 100% factual but that’s why we use words such as “allegedly”, “reports state” and so on and so forth. Our site is juicy and opinionated but far from negative. We take pride on being one of the most accredited sites in the blogosphere.
I just want to formally apologize to any entertainer that has taken a social media beating from a blogger but please don’t overlook us nice bloggers out here. I don’t use my platform to spread lies, I use it to inspire and to be the middle man between our favorite celebrities and the fans.
This post stemmed from Ciara’s thoughts on social media and bloggers that she posted to her personal website yesterday. See what she had to say below.
I used to sometimes like visiting some of the blog sites to see what new things are happening in the world! Things like cool photos, current events, etc. But nowadays it seems like there’s a competition with sites on “Who Can Tear Someone Down the Most.” The stories are going from cool and creative to pure drama. Even the comment sections are beginning to get out of control and people are using the platforms to exercise a false sense of power.
People sure do have a lot of courage when they are anonymous. It’s like a “Who Can Say the Nastiest Comment Game.” I click onto some of the comments from something as fun as an Instagram post that you’re sharing with your fans, and a person finds a way to turn a positive post into a negative. I think to myself, “I could pick this person apart so bad but what for? Why act ugly like them?” It honestly takes the fun out of it when people seem so miserable.
Or at least that’s how I view someone wasting their energy to tear someone down, just plain miserable. They could be using that to do something much more productive. If only they could channel their energy towards positivity, it could make a difference in their own life as well as influence others. It’s kind of scary for the kids coming up, because even if a parent doesn’t allow their kids to have blog site access at home, they may still have access at school or other places. It’s now almost impossible to protect your kids from the vile things people say on blog sites today, and it’s even worse when kids hear hurtful things about themselves, their parents or other family members. In some cases kids have even resorted to suicide due to “cyber-bullying.”
My questions to people creating slander about people are:
What stops you from thinking twice about trying to defame someone? What are you trying to gain?
Words are powerful. You could say the wrong thing about someone, famous or not, on the wrong day and that could cost them their life because they’re at a weak point. Believe it it or not, you could also be encouraging them to give up on their life or whatever the situation is, when they shouldn’t. Or what about a story that causes unnecessary drama stemming from completely false information? It’s just flat out wrong and sad. I say to myself, I thank God for making me strong, because I’ve always been able to use the negativity as motivation, and it makes me stronger.
But I don’t just think about myself in this, I think about others that I see getting thrashed and think it’s just so wrong. It’s very sad that people just want to tear people down so bad just to see them unhappy. It’s unbelievable how far people are willing to go to get people to come to their site.
I say this to say….
Dear Blogger, It’s never worth it in the end when you sell your soul for a quick dollar, by creating bad stories about people. At some point, it will all reverse on you and you’ll end up regretting all the trash you wrote or said about people.
The universal friend “Karma” has demonstrated this over and over again. I strongly encourage you to project more positivity into
the universe. If Social Media is a world that’s growing more massive by the day, why not use it to shed light?? Otherwise, you are merely contaminating our universe.
What about your family and kids?? Do you think about them?? You’re definitely creating a harmful and volatile environment where they must learn to live. It’s almost like you are cursing future generations with your bad energy.
Not to mention…Your “Personal Karma”??… Forget about it!
You better start doing some serious praying and rebuking, cause only The Lord knows!…:)
I sure do miss the good ol days when the focus was about the pure creativity of being an artist. Back then there was still some mystery. Social Media Is Beginning To Take Away The Specialness of What That Was, and Is.
Now, Off Blogs. Peaceful Mind. Living In My Happiness. Creativity Only.
Meanwhile, Rico Love touched basis on the evil side of social media. He basically stated that entertainers can no longer live a discrete life because of the fear of ending up on a blog. Check it out at the 18:30 mark.